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Women fall for these 7 kinds of men every time
Most times it's not about his looks or physical attributes maybe it's just his personality that draws these women like a magnet
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Ever wondered why some men get all the women while other find it hard to get the attention of one woman. Most times it's not about his looks or physical attributes like a nice 6-pack. Maybe it's just his personality that draws these women like a magnet.
1. The confident man: This guy has his self-confidence in check and is sure of himself, these qualities combined gives off an aura of power and control. He can't be pushed to jealousy when other men are around his woman. This confident quality makes women want him more.
2. The artistic man: This kind of man carries a bag full of creativity with him. He has no problem drawing up a painting or writing his woman a love song. He makes his woman feel unique and special with his creative mind.
3. The thoughtful/attentive guy: Women are emotional beings and will fall in love with a guy who understands the way they feel. A guy who treats women well is almost always irresistible to women.
4. The sharp guy: Not sharp in a bad way, but a guy who can connect with a woman on an intellectual level will most likely have her heart at the end of a long conversation. A good sense of humour and interesting conversation will keep her coming back for more
5. The romantic guy: This man will bring the woman he fancies flowers and chocolates. He loves a romantic dinner setting with candle light and roses. He uses romantic gestures to remind his woman that he loves her everyday. Women love this kind of appreciation and will reciprocate with a dose of romantic gestures.
6. The bad guy: This guy is the free spirited guy who lives for the moment. He's spontaneous and hardly worries about the consequences of his actions. His carefree attitude draws is likely to rub off on any woman he comes in contact with and in no time she'll be falling like a pack cards.
7. The exotic guy: This guy is also known as the foreigner. Speaks with different accent and is completely charming in his ways though he'll be the odd one out socially. He makes women become curious about him and is likely to fascinate them with conversations about his culture
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Tuesday 27 October 2015
Wednesday 14 October 2015
9-ways-to-overcome-the-fear-of-losing-someone-you-love
Being afraid of losing someone you love is not an uncommon feeling. Whether you just got into a relationship, or you’ve been in one for a long time, the fear is still present because, let’s face it: you could lose them at any time.
That’s not meant to scare anyone because, honestly, if your relationship is happy and healthy, you really have nothing to fear. Regardless, paranoia has a way of slithering into our brains, and causing us to envision horrifying scenarios where we are no longer with our loved ones.
I have since realized that I have an irrational fear of losing the one I love. To help combat your deep-seated fear of abandonment, we have put together an abundance of different ways you can overcome that fear easily!
1. Just relax; it’s natural:
The fear of losing someone you love is completely and totally natural. If you have feelings for them at all, then you’re going to be upset if they were to one day walk away from you. This isn’t news to anybody in a relationship.
By realizing that it’s normal for you to have some fear over losing someone you love, you will be able to accept your feelings and work toward moving on. Losing this fear altogether is actually cause for concern, as it usually signifies an even bigger issue, such as a loss of interest in your relationship.
2. Stop trying to control everything:
There are things in your life that are going to happen, whether you want them to or not. You can’t physically stop every person who comes into your life from leaving. They will come, and they will go, without your approval.
So just let things happen. Stop worrying about it all the time and realize that you can’t control their feelings and you can’t control everything they do—no matter how much you might want to. So, just stop. Nobody likes a control freak, anyway!
3. Get a journal:
Writing down your thoughts, feelings, and fears when it comes to losing someone you love may help you overcome that burden. Getting what’s on your mind on paper is a great way to relieve tension and relax a little bit.
It’s also an effective way for you to analyze just how over-the-top your fears are. Seeing your concerns on paper will help you see that maybe you need to tone it down a little bit, and that everything will be alright in the end. [Read: Abandonment issues and how it affects your relationship]
4. Communicate with your partner:
One of the best ways to alleviate the fear of losing your significant other is to simply talk to them about it. If your fear is crushing you that much, then you need to let your partner know how you’re feeling. Maybe they can reassure you, and ease your pain.
I have found that, a lot of the time, there was never any reason for concern. Your partner may even be completely shocked that you’re worrying so much about something so insignificant.
5. Enjoy your partner!:
One fantastic way to overcome this feeling is to just enjoy your significant other. Enjoy their company. Enjoy their personality and all the little things that make them tick. Most of the time, you’ll find yourself forgetting about any fears you had about losing them, because you’ll be too wrapped up in affection to care.
6. Realize that you may be making things worse:
It’s true. By worrying so much about losing someone, you may actually be making your current situation worse or even driving them away. If your mind is so caught up in the idea that they’re going to flee, you might just lead them there yourself.
Once you realize that you’re actually putting the relationship in jeopardy, you may be able to overcome this silly fear rather quickly. As a result of dwelling on the worst possible outcome, you will act differently. Nothing will make the person you love want to leave more than you completely changing your attitude. That’s not who they fell in love with.
7. Picture your life without them:
I know, I know! It’s definitely not something you want to do especially if that’s your biggest fear. But just hear me out, because it’s the most effective way for me, anyway to overcome this fear.
If you can imagine your life without them, and realize that you can go on, you’ll be okay, and everything will work out in the end, it’s so much easier to face the possibility of abandonment. You can face life without them just fine. Taking a few moments to picture it will definitely stop your worrying in its tracks.
8. Realize that life will go on either way:
Much like picturing your life without them, just realize that your life will go on with or without them. Sure, you would like to have your life continue with them, and it’s a scary thought that they might not be a part of it, but you will continue to live your life either way.
A partner doesn’t define your happiness, and a partner isn’t in control of you. You will live your life the way you want with or without them, and this mindset is definitely something that will help allay your deepest fears.
9. Accept that it’s a part of life and deal with it:
This may be a harsh reality, but it’s an honest one. Losing loved ones happens on a daily basis. You’re not alone when it comes to these feelings at all. Life happens whether you want it to or not, and you will have to deal with losing people you love here and there. Loss is a part of life, and will impact you in some way some day.
Accepting this reality now will send you on your way to overcoming your fear.
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OBJECTIVES: To work as a dynamic marketing/sales executive in order to develop and optimize my potentials, leadership and entrepreneurial skills, and in the process building a career and adding value to the organization I work with. STRENGTHS/FUNCTIONAL AREAS OF EXPERTISE Computer proficiency in Microsoft office and Excel sheet, Internet. Good communication and presentation skills. Strong interpersonal and a good team player. Ability to work under pressure with little or no supervision. Good at analyzing marketing situations. Goal oriented person with a good team spirit. Hardworking and consistent with an enthusiasm to learn new things HOBBIES/INTERESTS Travelling and Attending Educative Seminars. Working among teams. Watching movies and TV talk s shows (Business Focus). Singing, dancing, listening to music and reading.
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